So many things had happen since last 2 weeks,Popo left us and go to the happier world,my laptop out of order due to fan,now still didn't do really well,will be hang most of the time,so i seldom come online,that's the reason why i didn't update my blog too.
So many things happened,happy,not happy,drama not drama,but the saddest one,fact's always cruel,left without saying bye.I am so sad as well,i am really speechless when i see her crying,beside hugging her i don't know what else can i do,what can i say to console her,i just hope that she could be strong and come back to continue her studies for another year.Fact's cruel,but life.....Whenever i talk to my family,just remind me that we must appreciate what we have now,treasure them,older people like my grandpa,my 'biao gu po",dad said that only a few months after chinese new year,but she has grown older,she is weaker,her back pain is getting worse.So what can we do beside treasure them,talking to them,concern about them,i have so many things that i wanted to update to my blog,but my laptop didn't allow me to do so,hang after some period of time working.I am so busy and tired.
I was on 3 days diet last tuesday till thursday,manage to throw some stones away,hope that i can lost weight,i just want to be under normal BMI,knowing that obesity is predisposing factors for so many disease,1st diabetes melitus,2nd hypertension,3rd oncological disease,4th gynaecological disease like cervical cancer,uterus cancer and etc...Really i wish that i could just suck those fat out of my body.Eating is fun,dieting is hard but for healthy life style i need to maintain,i really need to do it and need to influence my family for doing so,my dad is doing alright,he has been praticising all this while,he went jogging sometime,he went for golf every friday,he is not eating a lot,just for his portion.
Wish that everyone is healthy and happy with what they are doing,those who is having hard time,wish that they will by pass it day by day,only time can help,today already 2nd last day of March,soon quater of the year will be gone.Lectures are ending soon,exams are coming soon.2 months time,i still have so many things to be catched up.Wish me luck and wish everyone the best!!!
昨天妈妈给我打电话问候我，问我病好了没？她也转告我说妈妮他们决定把婆婆给带回家，据说是医生说若是马来人的话，早已经把她给带回家了。就这样他们说好今天要把婆婆给带回她家去了。昨夜我还给妈你打了通电话，把她给吵醒了。她听起来好累，她说没什么，一切如样。她听说我病了，倒告诉我要怎样照顾自己，要煲凉茶等等之类。。。我通完电话后，倒觉得好笑，我打电话回去问候，却变成了我被关心的。听到一切安然我恙，我放心了，煮凉茶去了。
吃着晚餐的时候，突然间我想起婆婆，我清楚记得我最后一次是几时见到她的，原因是妈妈说秀雯要出国念书，我要回来乌克兰，所以要婆婆来我们家里一趟。我记得她和我坐在店里的客厅里说话，但我一点也想不起，她最后和我说些什么。我清楚记得婆婆最拿手的鸡饭，鸡扒，焖猪蹄，但我就是记不着她最后说的话。想着想着我哭了，我的眼泪掉下来了。我只记得婆婆常说的，将来我问结婚她要参加我们的婚礼，她常告诉我说她堂妹的女儿在新加坡当牙医，有多成功。我告诉她我希望自己也会这样成功。
我一直希望和祷告着，希望下一次回去还可以和婆婆见面，我还要和她说话，还要和她大声笑，因为她很爱笑，嘻嘻哈哈笑个不停，但今天早上醒来以后，看到大姐发的短训，不祥的预感，一打开短训，里面写着，对不起，婆婆走了。
婆婆，您安息吧，身躯小小的您养育了十个儿女，他们都有着落了。我们会永远记得您。
12th March 2009
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to Mou Juin,
Happy birthday to you!!!
Today is Mou Juin's birthday,i have never helped him celebrate before,i already left home to study in Ukraine when he was born,come to think of it,how come Mou Juin can be so closed to our family,everyone loves him a lot,My dad,my mum,my da jie,er jie,Siew Wen and Siew Ming.Everyone loves him a lot.He is just too cute:)
My dad,mum,da Jie and brother and Mou Juin's family help him celebrate his 5th birthday,hope it's a memorable one for him.
A note for Mou Juin:
5 year old,one year older,must be good boy and study smart ok!!!
I am so happy and so surprised to get this email,i hope nothing to get a reply from her,but i did,i am so happy,thanks for always remembering me,best wishes to you:)
What is the most important in life???Without hesitating-My family will be the answer,my parent had gave me a lot of things,give me the best of they can,they help me when i was in the hardest time,thank you,my dearest mom and dad!!!
Know where we are,and what we want,i think life will be easier to go on:)
I wore the trench coat that Siew Wen bought for me for the first time,i purposely kept it till 8th of March,Siew Wen,thank you.This is how i look like while i am wearing it,thanks.I love it so much,if i lose weight i will look better in this:)
This morning supposed to go to Epatoria with Eason and gang but in the end not feeling really well while woke up in the morning,bad sore throat.So i sleep again until 9 something,skype with my sisters again right after woke up,with Da jie,Er jie,Ming,Wen,Yi Sim,Wan Yen and Han Pin.These are really happening,all of us in different site of the world,Da Jie,Er Jie,Ming,Yi Sim is in Malaysia but KL and Kelantan,Wen is in London-UK,Wan Yen is in Auckland-NZ,Han Pin is in Sydney-Australia while i am in Simferopol-Ukraine.
At the same time,really nice smell from kitchen,i don't know what is Alvin doing,but he seemed busy,walking in and out of the kitchen,grab some stuffs from the fridge,but i didn't help him,so bad of me because i was busy on skype.Sorry ya,Alvin,i knew it's not women's day anymore,i don't have the priority for another day,but i do,thank you for allowing so:)
After he finished cooking,he came out,said Breakfast time,i supposed it's brunch time because it's already 12 something at that time.Wow,so amazed so nicely decorated breakfast table i had,with flower in the middle somemore,i am the luckiest person i would say,another day for me being pampered,i have priority for more than a day.It's a heart shape pancake,with bake beans,with my favourite scramble egg(i asked for more but don't have anymore,i like the scramble egg so much) and also banana plus chocolate topping in one plate,beside that,there are orange juice with ice and yogurt.I am so happily eating my breakfast prepared by Alvin.Thanks,Alvin:)
Isn't it lovely to have breakfast like this?It's even better to have it everyday:)
Heart shape pancake attracted my attention,i am so delighted,my favourite scramble egg and also baked beans which is sweeter one than normally cook,and banana with chocolate:).I promise Siew Ming i will make her heart shape pancake when i go back next time,i will do so,sis,for you and dad and mum:)
Orange Juice+ ice Yogurt
After lunch was busy chatting and chatting again,and skype with Khong Ming,i haven't been talking for him quite sometime because either he is busy or i am busy.Both of us talk quite long.Haha,scary it's almost 4 hours talking like that.
Dinner we had Mee goreng by CH,tom yam and keropok.After a long chat with a friend of mine,everything is cleared,we knew each other better i supposed.Sorry for making you sad,i am so sorry!!!
Tom Yam Keropok Mee Goreng
8th March 2009
Happy women's day to everyone.Today being a girl so much priority that i get(here in Ukraine and all others former USSR countries i supposed),i got so much of surprises and people treating me good today.
I got a few presents and dinner cook by a friend of mine,which he told me a week earlier,i supposed he really take this dinner important.We had fun,we talked and laughed non stop,Jonathon is making us a lot of fun.
I got balloon and chocolate dedication from Eason and Small Tan,supposed to have only 2 balloons,but Ming Hui doesn't like balloon so she gave me another 2,so in total i have 4,while on the street back i gave one to small baby girl.
I went to yoga in the morning,i got a flower from Alvin after he came back from church,he was like shouting "surprise" while he entered the door while i was talking on skype with my sisters and Yi Sim,he gave the flower to me,so sweet of him to give me a pink flower with lady bird wrapping,then he asked me,he said the flower is not nice right?I said i like the ladybird on the wrapping,then he said,i might as well buy u the wrapper only *****Faint...
After getting home,i was on skype and chatting with all my sisters but Da Jie wasn't home,but we chatted with Yi Sim as well,then Alvin cook me lunch and made me a cup of ice lemon tea,it's so lovely,it's very nice to have someone pampared you.Nice lunch i had,mee goreng with fishball,crab meat and egg.It's superb and a cup of nice lemon tea after mee goreng,even more perfect:)
Dinner time was in Gary's room,CH,Jonathon,Suan,Gary,Shu Yee,Pui Lim and i.We had a lot of dishes,dessert and also cake from Suan(the carrot cake that he made for first time,it's thumbs up and plus the effort that he using color etable beads to arrange "Happy Women days" on top,so sweet of him).We eat and chatted and laughed.
From left: (front row):Shu Yee,Gary,Jonathon and I
(back row):Pui Lim,Suan and CH
Our dishes for the night:
From left:Roasted Pork ribs by Pui Lim.Pork and chinese dried mushroom by Gary and Shu Yee,Bat Kut Teh by Pui Lim,Mussel sambal by Jonathon,Potato by Jonathon,Vege i don't know prepared by who.All the food are superb and delicious,thanks everyone for the effort of preparing them.
Can you see the happy women day on the topping on the cake by color beads?
Jonathon and CH went out today,they went out to buy Woffer,at the same time,they bought me a pot of purple flower's plant,it's like orchid,but it's not.Both of them was fighting,CH said the flower like butterlfy,Jon said the flower like a human face,got eyes,nose,mustard and mouth.Then he continue explaining why is that a man,he said because a flower for a girl surely need to be like a man(because have mustard,see the mustard must remember them),then i said who am i supposed to remember if both of you don't have mustard.
Does it look like a butterly or a man?
This chocolate from Jonathon means love :)
It's a fun day for me.Ya,i got a suprise from Yen Yun,she came all the way just to send me chocolate and to wish me,thank you,Yen Yun.I am so happy that you remember me.Thanks a lot.
I like the card so much,so sweet of it.
This chocolate that we had in Ukraine international airlines while we fly to Kiev from Simferopol,it's a delicious but expensive one as i know.Thanks Yen yun and Kok Hoong for thinking of me.
Message from Krishna and Cheryl made me happy.Thank you.I got message from Ivy,i miss her,i don't know when can i meet her.
07 March 2009 Dinner time
Alvin wasn't home,he went out for some church activities,only left Ming Hui,CH and i had dinner,Ming Hui brought her taufu along,she has no idea how to cook the taufu,so i suggested that we fried it and do mix vege and tofu,but due to we don't have carrot anymore,the tofu doesn't look nice,but the taste generally ok,the soup tonight is good,thanks for Low Hin herbal shop in Petaling street,it's really good the soup tonight.Besides that we had deep fry fish as well.It's good the deep fried fish but a bit salty.We enjoyed our dinner,we managed to finish up everything,even rice.How i wish everyday is like that,so it's less hustle to keep the left over into the fridge.
To me,i am sure i am "live to eat" but not "eat to live":)
07 March 2009
I made this Malay dessert today evening,but it's a total failure,it doesn't turn out to be like syrup.
The ingredients that i need and you wouldn't belive that what i can have here,but they are not from here,all are from Malaysia,could you believe your eyes that i have Jaya Jusco Pandan leaves sent by my mum,whahaha,i am the luckiest person in the world:)
It's RM0.50 one stalk,my mum was complaintning it's expensive,she said that if back home(in Kelantan),she could just grab them for free:)
From left: Gula Melaka,Beras pulut(Glutinous rice),Pandan leaves and Bananas,i forgot to add coconut milk into this picture,i do use them for the sugar syrup.
This is how the dessert look like in the end,it's not so good:(
